I'll be honest, when I hear the word discipline, I immediately think of routines, schedules, waking up early, and forcing myself to do things I don't really feel like doing.
And when it comes to faith, it can sometimes feel even more intimidating. Read your Bible every morning. Pray for an hour, never miss church, or stay away from every temptation.
I personally think Biblical discipline is much more about learning to choose Him, again and again, in the middle of your very normal life. I don't think God is asking us to become perfect at following a routine.
So what does that actually look like? Let's get into it.
1. Doing the right thing even when you don't feel like it
You won't always feel like praying, reading Scripture, going to church, or doing the right thing. And honestly, that sounds normal to me... Bad days will happen sometimes.
Biblical discipline means learning not to let every feeling make your decisions for you. Sometimes, you simply choose what you know is right, even when you don't feel particularly motivated.
2. Learn to say no to things that pull you away from God
This could be social media, certain habits, unhealthy relationships, temptation, whatever it is. Biblical discipline isn't just adding more Christian things to your day. Sometimes it's also recognizing what needs less space.
This can be really practical too. If, just like many other people and me, social media is one of the things that constantly pulls your attention away from God, Bible Lock lets you choose which apps to limit and asks you to read Scripture before opening them.
It's not about making your phone the enemy. It's just creating a small pause between the urge and the action.
3. Praying regularly, not only when something goes wrong
It's easy to remember God when life gets difficult, right?
But prayer isn't your emergency button. Biblical discipline also means talking to God when things are going well, when you're grateful, when you're confused, and when there's nothing particularly dramatic happening.
4. Controlling your reactions
You can't always control what happens around you, but you can learn to be more intentional about how you respond. Some random day, someone would make you angry, and you may want to say something hurtful; you're basically tempted to react immediately, which is pretty normal and understandable as a human being.
But here's the thing : Biblical discipline means learning to pause, pray, and choose a response that reflects Christ instead of simply doing whatever your emotions are telling you to do.
6. Being willing to be corrected
Following God also means being willing to admit when something in your life needs to change. That can be uncomfortable, for sure. Nobody loves being told they're wrong.
But biblical discipline involves repentance. When God shows you something that isn't right, don't ignore it or make excuses for it. Listen, turn away from it, and try again.
7. Choosing obedience in the small things, even when nobody is watching
It's easy to look like a good Christian when other people are watching. But what about when nobody knows?
Biblical discipline isn't only about big decisions or major changes... It's also about the small, everyday choices nobody else sees: telling the truth, forgiving someone, keeping your word, resisting temptation, helping someone when you don't have to, or choosing patience when you'd rather snap. Those little choices matter because they're shaping who you're becoming.
Biblical discipline is choosing what is right even when there's no applause for it. Ultimately, you're not trying to impress people; you're learning to live in a way that honors God.
One last thing... Biblical discipline isn't about becoming the person who never struggles, never gets distracted, never gets angry, and never makes a mistake.
You're still gonna have bad days, you're still gonna mess up, you're absolutely still going to have moments where you choose the wrong thing. But you can always choose what happens next.